Hold on hold on hold on. I am not at this time trying to make any statement about what the state of gay marriage should be. I'm the daughter of two social scientists. I see gaudior making a poll to elicit people's opinions, while clearly leaving out an option for an opinion that many people have.

It would be disingenuous to claim that this has nothing to do with my own opinion, but I stongly do not wish to debate the matter in public.