I am not making "should" statements about gay marriage. Since gaudior included an extreme on her poll that she obviously disagreed with, as well as the symmetrical statement which she does agree with, I believed that her poll was intended to capture/describe the range of opinions on a controversial matter. I was therefore trying to make a descriptive statement: There are people who believe X.

I no longer believe that was [Unknown site tag]'s intention. Since I have nothing to add to the discussion, I will return to lurking.