At the moment, I'll happily vote for anything that actually gets all couples the legal, taxable, visitational, etc. rights, whatever the fuck it's called. I think it makes more sense to separate out in law what's a civil agreement that states, businesses, the law, and federal goverment honors with various protections and responsibilites, and what's the religious ceremony recognizing two people commiting to each other. However, if it gets people to agree to DO IT, actually give ALL the rights to queer couples, I don't care if it's called "LOLCATS", so long as it's there and enforced.

I know I'll be calling my commitment to significant other of whatever gender "marriage", but that's a slightly different issue.