I think you should just start telling them good places where they can donate money, put 'em to work spending money on marginalized groups. Like indigenous people!

I unexpectedly had a loan paid back this week and spent the money via okini.net providing a sick elder with a fleece robe, a grandmother with blankets and frying pans, a mom with a bunch of shampoo and toothpaste and such...and there's a never-ending list of things people need, just at that one place. If the White Moderates are too self-congratulatory to listen to reason on the one front, get them to do something useful with their money and privilege on another.