I know, that's super-problematic. The categories I had in mind were
"person for whom there is a possibility (though not a guarantee) of this being personally relevant to you"
and
"person for whom this will only be relevant on behalf of others"
In which case, you would count as "queer" for there being a possibility? But overall, I think it's going to be a guesswork and whatever feels most-like-right to people.
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Date: 2009-09-04 02:26 am (UTC)"person for whom there is a possibility (though not a guarantee) of this being personally relevant to you"
and
"person for whom this will only be relevant on behalf of others"
In which case, you would count as "queer" for there being a possibility? But overall, I think it's going to be a guesswork and whatever feels most-like-right to people.