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People have been talking about bullying lately. Dan Savage's It Gets Better Project has drawn attention to the suicides of gay teenagers, and has inspired the Make It Better Project, to give youth and concerned adults the tools they need to stop bullying in the schools. (I strongly recommend MIBP's Take Action page, which has such useful links as information about The Safe Schools Improvement Act (H.R. 2262/S. 3739) and how you can support it). And both [livejournal.com profile] homasse and [livejournal.com profile] seishonagon linked to an insightful and useful article by Kate Harding, On Good Kids and Total Assholes.

I'm glad people are talking about this so much-- it's making me think about my own childhood, and how much I accepted kids making fun of me, ostracizing me, and generally making me miserable as "just the way things are." That understanding of the universe and my place in it had long-lasting effects, and I am delighted and grateful that people now are talking seriously about how to stop bullying.

(I may at some point make a larger post, but at the moment, I wanted to signal-boost. Yay, signal-boosting.)

--R

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Date: 2010-10-11 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gaudior.livejournal.com
This sounds like part of the larger general problem of patients having trouble getting doctors to listen to them. And especially with chronic illnesses, where doctors may find the work less satisfying because they can't do anything to fix it-- saying the problem is caused by the patient's "lifestyle choices" means that it's not the doctor who's incapable of fixing this illness. Not all doctors do that, but I do think it's a serious problem when some do.
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