Thought of a new shorthand to explain privilege

[gaudior]

Okay, you remember how life was hard before the pandemic? Like, maybe you had problems with relationships, or money, or health, or career, or raising kids? It wasn't easy. It might not even have been something you felt like you were able to cope with.

And then there was a pandemic. And on top of that, everything was suddenly much harder?

Being in an oppressed group is like being in a pandemic. Your experience depends a lot on other aspects of your life, and some people might have it much better or worse than others. Some people's lives in a pandemic are even comparatively easier than other people's lives not in a pandemic! But the pandemic is still something that overlies all sorts of areas of your life, and affects them, and makes them harder than they would be if there were no pandemic.

Having privilege doesn't mean your life is easy, or that everyone who has it is better off than everyone who doesn't. It just means... you're not in a pandemic. You don't have this other huge thing to deal with on top of the things you're already dealing with.

--R

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[kore]

I've had agoraphobia and been disabled for a veeeery long time, and it's....often discomfiting to hear people talk about how UNBEARABLE their current lives are now (can't go out shopping! can't see friends! can't go to movies! &c &c &c) when that's....been my reality for a long long time. And yeah, I get the feeling that a LOT of people who are not used to thinking of their lives as limited (because if they're white, permanently employed, fairly well-off, &c &c, why should they) are running up against it hard, and maybe it'll be a Teachable Moment. But my fear is that a slim minority of people will be able to go back to life pretty much as they enjoyed it before, and the rest of us will be left reeling. I dunno. Some of the stats already coming out about possible long-term damage by the plague from inflammation, cognitive and physical, look really daunting. There may be a lot more disabled and unprivileged people in the US in the future.

I guess the mask wars shouldn't have surprised me because I've seen rancid arguments over wearing seatbelts and curb cuts in my time, and those also benefit everybody, but that wasn't with the force of a PANDEMIC behind the argument (and not only that, a pandemic that the government seems not only to be ignoring but in some cases hastening along....?). But it's like, no really! If we take care of each other to some extent, everyone benefits! Dog-eat-dog does not work as a social guide!